{"id":1447,"date":"2010-05-05T18:05:28","date_gmt":"2010-05-06T01:05:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/?p=1447"},"modified":"2013-01-23T10:22:35","modified_gmt":"2013-01-23T17:22:35","slug":"ketisharifbellydance-in-utero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/05\/ketisharifbellydance-in-utero\/","title":{"rendered":"Bellydance  in Utero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art50\/graphics50\/ketibaby.jpg\" alt=\"Keti and Child\" width=\"300\" height=\"404\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/aboutuspages\/KetiSharif.htm\">Keti Sharif<\/a><br \/>\n<span class=\"footnotes\">posted May 5, 2010<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Belly dancing is a wonderful experience for the  pregnant woman, because it yields tremendous physical and emotional benefits. I  endorse dance for all my pregnant students because it definitely keeps you  limber as your baby grows and your body ripens and changes, providing a lovely  connection with your unborn child.&nbsp;Belly dancing was an important part of my life  during my pregnancy, but of course, with the ever-expanding belly, my dance  practice changed direction as my pregnancy progressed, and it changed again  after the birth&nbsp;last year of my daughter <span class=\"artist\">Serafina<\/span>. I&#8217;m sharing my  experiences so that other new mums might be able to use these tips before and  after giving birth, and apply them to their own dance lifestyles.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight\"> When pregnant, I practiced Belly dance moves each  day in preparation for giving birth, mainly focusing on the circular, soothing  and stretching movements but avoiding shimmies and moves that were  contra-indicated by midwives and sports professionals.<\/p>\n<p> Being a first time  mother at 39, I wanted to be certain to do everything properly. In many ways I  was extra cautious, having updated my sports training certificate in Perinatal  Fitness just a year prior to my pregnancy. Studying the American-run AAFA  Perinatal Fitness course in Cairo was an eye-opening intensive, complete with  emergency first aid for expectant mothers. With safety precautions in place, I  was alternating dancing and practicing yoga daily but kept it slow and easy at  the same time.<\/p>\n<p> The dance was an integral part of my life  throughout my entire pregnancy experience.&nbsp;I was teaching Belly dance workshops until my  eighth month and remember teaching an energetic two-hour workshop at the <span class=\"company\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art32\/zeinanilegroupcairo.htm\">Nile  Group Festival<\/a><\/span> in Cairo with an 8-month rounded belly! It was an Astro-Belly &quot;Birth and Beyond&quot;  class, modified for pregnancy and post-partem, with dance teachers from around  the world, including three pregnant Belly dancers, joining in to learn more.  Participants were amazed that I could dance so energetically, considering the  size of my belly, but daily practice and looser ligaments made it easy. In  fact, my stamina surprised even me, but surely, it was the daily dance  exercises that helped.<\/p>\n<p> During my pregnancy, I hosted many workshops and  seminars in Cairo, including several intensive week-longs with <span class=\"artist\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art29\/perizadfaridareview.htm\">Farida Fahmy<\/a><\/span> and <span class=\"artist\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art32\/rockyredainterviewp1.htm\">Mahmoud Reda<\/a><\/span>.&nbsp;Hosting workshops was a great way for me to learn  during that time, because dancers can learn from stepping aside and watching,  listening and taking notes when they are unable to dance for any reason. The  workshops were wonderful to host, and it was awesome being around the legends  of dance and such lovely ladies from around the world. As Farida taught, I  handled the music and cds for her lessons.&nbsp;My baby kicked vigorously each time the music  started, especially to the <em>Muwashahat<\/em> music (classical Andalusian style), and  even today, it seems to be the music that Serafina loves most! She bounces  excitedly to all the Arabic rhythms she had heard in utero as well. She becomes  lively and jiggles with the tabla rhythms, and seems to prefer them to regular  Western music&#8211;or even nursery rhymes.<\/p>\n<p> Serafina was quite overdue, and as any expectant  mother knows, those last days of waiting are challenging! I used this time to  prepare some essential oils and a &quot;birthing cd&quot; of all my favourite Belly dance tracks for the  occasion. Indeed, they came in handy! I burned beautiful oils and danced right  through my labour, and did the entire A-Z routines&#8230;&nbsp; It was comforting  to have a drill to go through, and it really kept my mind and body balanced as labour  progressed. When each contraction came on, I simply squatted deeply into the  contraction and let the wave of pain pass over, throughout my body, then got up  and kept dancing. I believe that the dancing movements helped keep me strong,  both physically and emotionally and helped the labour along. <\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight\">The entire labour  was much easier than I had expected, and quite a powerful experience. We did  encounter a problem with the birth though; after several hours, the doctor&#8217;s  ultrasound showed my baby&#8217;s arm to be caught up in the umbilical cord, so  therefore, she was unable to descend. Within half an hour of the discovery,  Seraphina was delivered by cesarean section; my beautiful, chubby little girl  was born!<\/p>\n<p> I left the hospital after just two days, instead  of the obligatory 5-8 days post op, because the cesarean healed so quickly. The  nurses were asking many questions about Belly dancing and believed my strong  pelvic floor and healthy back was a result of the dance. The main midwife&#8217;s  last words were, &quot;You can go home; you&#8217;re as fit as a fiddle!&quot; At  home, for the first few weeks, I did very gentle hip circles and stretches. The  uterus takes six weeks to reach pre-pregnancy proportions, so I believe it&#8217;s  best for a new mother to take it easy. It is not a time for crash diets and  fitness regimes (like the Hollywood actresses push themselves through for the  sake of the camera). It is a time to nurture your body, your baby and focus on  the beauty of life that came from within. I resumed yoga and dance six weeks after  delivery, and slowly progressed to full powered shimmies and fitness after four  months. My back and pelvic floor are both still strong and took very little  maintenance to return to full pre-pregnancy strength.<\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight\"> As baby gets older, although your time becomes  more limited, you can still practice Belly dancing. Class time may be less, but  baby enjoys the music and dancing at home. If you have a few friends with  children who wish to join you, allocate turns for a &quot;baby sitter&quot;  during class; although children like it so much, they often become a part of  the fun class!<\/p>\n<p> If you go to class, check if there are teachers that run  &quot;Mother and Child&quot; classes, or alternatively, get a baby sitter or  family member to look after baby the same time every week so you can continue  your hobby.&nbsp;The  Internet becomes a great source of learning when your baby keeps you at home. I  allocate a half hour timeslot each day (when little Serafina sleeps) to get my  emails done, and use the time to surf the web. <\/p>\n<p> As children get older, children&#8217;s Bellydance and  Folkloric dance classes are such fun to teach, and they are a great way to  clean the studio too, because, at the end of the class, you can ask them to  collect sequins off the floor, and they can keep the sparkling treasures that  they find! <\/p>\n<h6><strong>Resources:<\/strong><\/h6>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h6><strong>Maha <\/strong><strong>Moussa<\/strong> has written a beautiful book called <strong>&quot;<u>Dance of the Womb<\/u>&quot;,<\/strong> and&nbsp;I recommend it highly. To all the Belly dance moms out there I say,  &quot;Continue dancing and sharing information about the wonderful, empowering  benefits of Belly dancing for birth and beyond!&quot;<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h6><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/aboutuspages\/KetiSharif.htm\">Author&#8217;s bio on Gilded Serpent<\/a><\/strong><\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/graphics\/acommentbox.jpg\" alt=\"use the comment box\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"ready4more\">\n<p>Have a comment? Use or comment section at the bottom of this page or <a href=\"mailto:editor@gildedserpent.com\">Send us a letter!<\/a> <br \/>\nCheck the &quot;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/let2ed.htm\">Letters to the Editor<\/a>&quot; for other possible viewpoints!<\/p>\n<p>Ready for more?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--end ready4more --><\/p>\n<div class=\"articlelist\">\n<ul>\n<li><strong>9-14-07 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art41\/ericaprenataldvd.htm\">Dancing the Big Belly, Bellydance Prenatal Fitness and Dance Instruction Program DVD<\/a> review by Erica<br \/>\n<\/strong>The slow pace may seem agonizing for a fit, nonpregnant dancer and may seem slow during earlier stages of pregnancy, but as that weight starts adding up and the fatigue returns in the third trimester, I  have a feeling the pace does not seem so slow.<\/li>\n<li><b><strong>10-10-07 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art41\/bethdaleelabook.htm\">Belly Dance Wisdom&#8211; For Fitness, Pregnancy and a Divine Sexualit<\/a>y Book Review by Surreyya<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/b>This book, although not as deep on certain subjects as some may expect, does a great job at rustling the leaves away from a crooked sidewalk or blowing the dust off an old spice jar revealing an inner glow of warmth to share with others. <\/li>\n<li><strong>5-3-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/03\/charlotte-british-bellydance\/\">A Very British Kind of Bellydance<\/a> by Charlotte Desorgher<\/strong><br \/>\nThis incongruity is something that characterizes the English bellydance scene. Many of our festivals are held in historic sites, such as castles or ancient towns, and we are used to the surprising sound of Arabic music floating across an English lawn.<\/li>\n<li><strong>4-28-10<\/strong> <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/04\/28\/nicole-nights-out-in-cairo-p2\/\">Nights Out in Cairo, Part 2: Sunday Through Tues day<\/a> by Nicole<\/strong><br \/>\nI realized that I\u2019m more at home on a felucca sounded by Egyptians with Shabii music blasting than in a hip hop club, with girls in short skirts rubbing up against guys. In my life in San Francisco, my friends and I were living a combination of both, but we had to have Arabic music at the end of the day, because that was what moved us.<\/li>\n<li><strong>4-27-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/04\/27\/oscarphotossfbamecdagala09\/\">San Francisco Bay Area Chapter of the Middle Eastern Culture &amp; Dance Association (SFBA MECDA) 2009 Fall Gala Showcase Photos<\/a> by Oscar Cwajbaum, Introduction by Davina <\/strong><br \/>\nWe were fortunate to have a new photographer at our last gala show on November 14, 2009.  It was Oscar\u2019s first belly dance event, and though I invited him purely to get photos of my own costuming work, he spent the entire day snapping shots from our show and has fallen in love with our art form.   Here are some of my favorite shots from that day.<\/li>\n<li><strong>4-16-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/04\/16\/andrea-panel-belly-dance-feminism\/\">Belly Dance and Feminism: Different Issues, Different Perspectives<\/a> Introduction to IBCC Panel on Bellydance and Feminism<\/strong><br \/>\nFeminism embraces more than one point of view, and feminist perspectives lead to many different decisions and courses of action.  Feminism is a tool for thinking \u2013 for understanding and putting a name to issues you may be wrestling with in your own dance life, and for seeing belly dance in the light of broader economic, social and political realities. <\/li>\n<li><strong>4-15-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/04\/15\/shira-mass-media\/\">Mass Media, Mass Sterotypes: Beginnings<\/a> by Shira<\/strong><br \/>\nFrom the very beginning of moving pictures technology, moviemakers have used \u201cMiddle Eastern dance\u201d as a means of adding sexual innuendo and sexy eye candy to their productions. <\/li>\n<li><strong>4-14-10<a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/04\/15\/nicole-nights-out-in-cairo\"> Nights Out in Cairo, Part 1: Wednesday Through Saturday<\/a> by Nicole<\/strong><br \/>\nThe beauty of Cairo is often in the every day things, the small things that we wouldn\u2019t consider so worthwhile, but in fact, make up the real substance of what it\u2019s like to live here. I don\u2019t go to museums or monuments or see famous Belly dancers every day, but I am here in Cairo every day and that is special in and of itself.<\/li>\n<li><strong>4-10-10<\/strong> <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/04\/10\/carl-fesitval-photos-r-z\/\">Carl&#8217;s Photos from Rakkasah East Festival 2009, Page 4: R-Z <\/a> by Carl Sermon<\/strong><br \/>\nRaks Helm, Raks Sheva, Ranya, Raqs Caravan, Rasa, Sahara Shimmer, Salit, Samra, Scheheresade, Sera &amp; Solstice, Shaula, Shayda, Shushanna &amp; Sean, Soverign Reign, Surayyah, Suzanna, Tanya, Tapestry Tribe, Tasha, Tempest, The Nixies, Troupe Little Egypt, Troupe Solice, Troupe Zoryanna, Valerie Rushmere, Wild Gypsy Fired, Yame, Yasmine, Za-Beth <\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When pregnant, I practiced Belly dance moves each day in preparation for giving birth, mainly focusing on the circular, soothing and stretching movements but avoiding shimmies and moves that were contra-indicated by midwives and sports professionals.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1447"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1447"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1447\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1447"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1447"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1447"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}