{"id":1544,"date":"2010-05-31T00:07:34","date_gmt":"2010-05-31T07:07:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/?p=1544"},"modified":"2012-08-20T11:08:18","modified_gmt":"2012-08-20T18:08:18","slug":"mary-building-a-dance-community","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/31\/mary-building-a-dance-community\/","title":{"rendered":"Building a Dance Community"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art50\/graphics50\/mary\/DSC_0402Top.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"424\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/aboutuspages\/mary.html\">Mary<\/a><br \/>\n<span class=\"footnotes\">posted May 30, 2010<\/span><\/h3>\n<p> As  a baby belly, I was lucky enough to enter the dance world in the large, vibrant  and varied dance community of South Florida and in my naivet\u00e9 I thought this  vibrancy was normal for all communities around the country. Then my husband and  I moved to Middle Georgia. When I discovered the dancers in this area, I found  that there was a community, but not what I was used to, and most of the events  here revolved around involvement with a particular instructor or school. I got  involved with one group, but still missed the \u201cbusy-ness\u201d and number of events  and social options my old community had to offer. And so, with others in the  area, we went about building and expanding the Middle Georgia belly dance  \u201cscene.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight\"> Building a dance community will not happen overnight and it cannot be  accomplished effectively by a sole individual, especially if there are several  established instructors\/schools already in the area. <\/p>\n<p>Looking back over the past  three and a half years and seeing the growth that has happened here locally, my  hope is that sharing the gathered information and experience will help others  create stronger dance communities in their own towns as well. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\">Getting Started<\/p>\n<p> The  first step to putting together the dance community is to identify your local  key players. The easiest way to do this is to contact all local instructors or  performers in the area and try to set up a meeting. It\u2019s best if everyone meets  at one time, but individual meetings may also be necessary due to schedules and  when you are still learning about the community (if you are not already  familiar with everyone). <\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight\">Approach everyone with a spirit of cooperation \u2013 this  is not high school and for a community to come together, individual \u2018issues\u2019  need to be put aside and eventually resolved. <\/p>\n<p><span class=\"sectiontitle\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art50\/graphics50\/mary\/cherryblossomfatimah.jpg\" alt=\"Fatimah\" width=\"267\" height=\"400\" align=\"left\" \/><\/span>In  Middle Georgia everyone was excited at the idea of having an active local  community where dancers cooperated with each other to hold events and parties  where everyone felt welcome. Being in the middle of the South, there are many  misconceptions we work to dispel about this dance form and as a group we are  much more effective as the community can provide a consistent and unified  message rather than appearing as a group of factions that cannot agree with  each other. <\/p>\n<p> We decided that our goals to improve the community were to: <\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>plan  two workshops annually with dance instructors we felt would have something to  offer everyone in the community <\/li>\n<li>hold  local socialization events like swap meets or casual haflas to expose students  to the social side of dance <\/li>\n<li>organize  student shows and\/or support each others\u2019 student shows to encourage new  dancers who wish to grow into performers or just conquer stage fright <\/li>\n<li>encourage  a code of professional standards for performing\/teaching dancers <\/li>\n<li>provide  a central location for the general public to find quality dancers in the area  and participate in local events and festivals that will help us promote  understanding and culturally enhance the local area. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\">Picking a Structure<\/p>\n<p>There does not need to be an official \u201ccommittee\u201d to build a community, a  general consensus is enough if several of the key players are already putting  on haflas, etc, and all members are willing to support each other\u2019s events. We  did not have an official committee for a long time, just open communication  between individuals and it worked relatively well at the time. <\/p>\n<p>We have recently created Southern Raq (<a href=\"http:\/\/southernraqbellydance.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">www.southernraq.com<\/a>) for our  area, because the dancers here feel the community has grown enough to now merit  a more \u201cofficial\u201d central group with representatives from all areas of the  community. Another reason is that the community as a whole benefits from the  workshops we host here about twice a year and a committee is a good way to  share the responsibility for planning events. <\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight\">To avoid creating a clique  though, officers rotate annually, so new members can volunteer to join,  meetings are open to all who wish to attend and everyone who wishes to submit  input or suggestions can feel welcome to do so, because a committee is not  effective if it doesn\u2019t serve the community. <\/p>\n<p>When building your community you may also find that an e-mail list,  Facebook group or community calendar webpage can work well for sharing  information with everyone. If the information is not publicly searchable and\/or  easy to find (like with a website), it is recommended that any dancer who has a  website adds links to the location or clearly identify the e-mail address where  interested individuals can request information about community events. <span class=\"sectiontitle\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art50\/graphics50\/mary\/cherryblossomperrygroup.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" align=\"right\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\">Keeping it Together<\/p>\n<p> After dealing with the challenges of getting everyone together, deciding what  kind of community you want to build and how you plan on doing so, you must  remember that everyone on the committee is human and with that comes  complications. <\/p>\n<p><span class=\"highlight\">A community does not operate in a vacuum and there is no room  for cattiness or drama if the community is to be effective and truly benefit  the area as a whole<\/span>. <\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If  there are pre-existing conflicts between individuals, it may be beneficial for  a neutral party to talk to both sides and try to mediate, particularly if these  individuals are key players in the area. You don\u2019t have to become best friends  with everyone, but the dancing is more important than the drama. <\/li>\n<li>If  conflicts arise while everyone is trying to come together to work on building  the community, deal with the issue early. It may just be a small  misunderstanding or mis-perception of intentions and if it is not addressed  early, it can grow, fester and destroy what everyone is working to create. <\/li>\n<li>If  conflicts arise after the initial period, once again, deal with them  immediately. The best advice I can give based on the experience we\u2019ve had  locally is to go directly to the individual or a neutral party if you need a  mediator and talk it over like adults. Gossiping to your friends, your students  and anyone who may listen is not only in poor taste, it reflects badly on you  and will create rifts in the community. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\">So, why bother?<\/p>\n<p> There are a lot of challenges and obstacles to overcome in working to build a  community, but being a part of a dance community can be one of the most  rewarding aspects of being in belly dance. Many dancers may come into this  dance older, or perhaps not wish to ever dance professionally but prefer to  keep it as a hobby, and dancing can be a major part of their social life and a  great source of joy. The Middle Georgia community grew more quickly when we  were actively working to build the community as a whole than when we were  operating as individuals because students can have more fun, instructors and  performers get the opportunity to remember one of the reasons they fell in love  with the dance to begin with and everyone can feel a sense of pride in knowing  they are a part of something that not only benefits the dancers, but adds  variety as a whole and enhances the community in which they live. <\/p>\n<h6 align=\"center\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art50\/graphics50\/mary\/picture134.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"363\" \/><\/h6>\n<h6>Captions for photos:<\/h6>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h6>Sword photo dancers: Top row L to R: Bela Zaphyre, Mary, Mahira, Bottom Row (L to R): Debra, Trish. Photo by MiaVonni Photography<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h6>Veil Dancer: Fatimah dances at the 2010 Macon Cherry Blossom Festival. Photo by Penny Kojak (aka Karabela)<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h6>Class performance: I don&#8217;t know all the dancers there&#8230; The group is Perry Bellydance and the instructor Trish is in the center (blue, feather in hair) and Bela Zaphyre is at the far right<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h6>Fourth of July parade (L to R): Bela Zaphyre, Debra, Aaminah, Trish, Mary<br \/>\n<\/h6>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p align=\"center\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/graphics\/acommentbox.jpg\" alt=\"use the comment box\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"ready4more\">\n<p>Have a comment? Use or comment section at the bottom of this page or<a href=\"mailto:editor@gildedserpent.com\"> Send us a letter!<\/a> <br \/>\nCheck the &quot;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/let2ed.htm\">Letters to the Editor<\/a>&quot; for other possible viewpoints!<\/p>\n<p>Ready for more?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t<!--end ready4more --><\/p>\n<div class=\"articlelist\">\n<ul>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">2-15-09<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art47\/Joetteacademicbooks.html\"> Academia?\tLike it or Trash it!2 Books Reviewed: Dancing Communities &amp; Dancing Fear and Desire<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Joette Sawall<\/span><br \/>\nOne thing that I have found within our community is the general lack of scholarship and a feminine voice within the research.<\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">1-29-05 <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art29\/shirachicagohafla.htm\">Photos from Sumaya&#8217;s Chicago South Side Hafla<\/a><span class=\"articleauthor\"> by Shira<\/span><br \/>\nBeing new to the Midwest, I thought it would be fun to attend one of Sumaya&#8217;s haflas and meet other members of the greater Midwestern dance community. <\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">6-10-08<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art44\/narahWV.htm\">Bellydance Grows in West Virginia<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Narah<\/span><br \/>\nIt has allowed us to build upon the ties we already have and extend them to other dancers, making a community of sharing and support. <\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articleauthor\">7-18-05<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art31\/MaryEllenart2.htm\">Rhythm and Reason Series, Article 3, Community Warfare<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Mary Ellen Donald<\/span><br \/>Time and again I hear dancers deplore the fact that in many parts of the country there are warring camps among dancers; that is, groups that openly oppose each other and that try to keep all useful information and all jobs to themselves. <\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articleauthor\">4-14-06<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art35\/maryellen9.htm\">Rhythm and Reason Series, Article 10-How to Avoid Being Eaten by Sharks<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Mary Ellen Donald<\/span><br \/>Not so fortunate are those people who   feel threatened most of the time, limping from one extreme response to another.<\/li>\n<li><strong>5-26-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/26\/artemis-freddie-part-5-todays-music\/\">Dancing with Legends: Interview of Freddie Elias, Part 5: Today\u2019s Music<\/a> by Artemis Mourat<\/strong><br \/>\nIf they are good musicians, they will abide by the rules and respect the dancer. We have to work for her, not against her. The young lady depends on you. She depends on the musicians. <\/li>\n<li><strong>5-24-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/24\/cifuentes-loyalty\/\">Loyalty, A Virtue Out of Fashion?<\/a> by Beata and Horacio Cifuentes<\/strong><br \/>\nSome do not stop to think that it is a matter of basic manners to express your gratitude to an individual who has made an effort to provide well-being and knowledge. They just go and move on to their aerobics classes, horseback riding sessions, judo drills, or other, while the teacher is left behind wondering if any aspect of their lesson caused the pupil to go. <\/li>\n<li><strong>5-18-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/17\/monica-sula\/\">Sula, An Artisic Life<\/a> by Monica<\/strong><br \/>\nSula continued to study with Bert through the early 1970s, though by 1972 she called him \u201cmy ex-teacher and now equal partner\u201d.  Bert was extremely proud of Sula, as she was among the first students he trained who began teaching seriously.<\/li>\n<li><strong>5-17-10<a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/16\/yasmia-bust-to-be-proud-of\/\"> A Bust to Be Proud of&#8230;<\/a> by Yasmin Henkesh<\/strong><br \/>\nWhen she introduces me to her dance friends, it\u2019s the first story out of her mouth \u2013 eighteen years after the fact. We still laugh about it.<\/li>\n<li><strong>5-10-10 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2010\/05\/02\/ibcc-2010\/\">IBCC 2010, Wednesday April 21, Opening Gala Report From The International Bellydance Conference of Canada<\/a> by Gilded Serpent Staff <\/strong><br \/>\nBecause Gilded Serpent didn\u2019t quite make it to the hall until the show was over, we are very grateful that<br \/>\nBrigid Kelly     consented to give us her report from the Wednesday evening performancec. The dance photos overlayed on this video are by Samira Hafezi. <\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Approach everyone with a spirit of cooperation \u2013 this is not high school and for a community to come together, individual \u2018issues\u2019 need to be put aside and eventually resolved<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1544"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1544"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1544\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}