{"id":4247,"date":"2012-07-11T16:39:47","date_gmt":"2012-07-11T23:39:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/?p=4247"},"modified":"2012-07-11T16:39:47","modified_gmt":"2012-07-11T23:39:47","slug":"celia-travel-rhea-greece-egypt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2012\/07\/11\/celia-travel-rhea-greece-egypt\/","title":{"rendered":"Living a Life Uncommon"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>A Mediterranean  Tour with Rhea of Athens<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art57\/graphics57\/celia\/Monastiraki.jpg\" alt=\"Author\" width=\"300\" height=\"458\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/aboutuspages\/celia.html\">Celia<\/a><br \/>\n<span class=\"footnotes\">posted July 11, 2012<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/aboutuspages\/MelindaDtrRhea.htm\">Melina<\/a> <\/strong>descends  to the floor in a full split, clenching a dagger between her teeth. On top of  the dagger, she balances a sword. Her ornate costume glitters in the warm  lighting of <strong><em>Karoun Restaurant,<\/em><\/strong> where she is performing. Melina is  the star of Karoun. On this evening, she has invited me to dance with her as a  kind of apprentice. I watch in awe as she pushes the sword gently with her  hand, causing it to spin on the tip of the dagger. Hushed appreciation emanates  from the audience. No one can captivate a crowd like Melina. Her performances  are rich with a multitude of talents. One moment, she is revolving with her  veil like a whirling dervish. The next, she is executing a perfect back bend  while perched atop three glass goblets. For some shows, she dances while  balancing a tray of burning candles on her head. For others, she does her sword  and dagger act. Sometimes, she does both. <\/p>\n<p>Melina\u2019s sword music ends and we move into the finale, both of us  spinning colorfully across the dance floor, engaging the audience, and  collecting tips. At our invitation, smiling people get up from their tables and  join us in a free dance. The whole restaurant is alive with music and happy  patrons. When the show is over, we pick up our props and parade offstage,  Melina raising her sword triumphantly, I letting my veil trail behind us in the  air. We load these items into her car and drive home, where we create a pile of  dollar bills on the living room floor. She offers tea, which we sip contentedly  on the carpet as we count our tips. I look at the heap of cash in front of us  and I contemplate the experience she is sharing with me. It is certainly  unique. <\/p>\n<p>For Melina, belly dance is a way to express joy and a means of income.  She is a second generation belly dancer whose artistry is deeply rooted in  family life. Melina\u2019s mother, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/aboutuspages\/rhea.htm\">Rhea<\/a><\/strong>, moved to Athens in the 1970s to  pursue a performance career in the tavernas. Melina and her sister, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/aboutuspages\/piper.htm\">Piper<\/a><\/strong>,  grew up dancing alongside her. Throughout her childhood, Melina delighted the  Greeks with her energetic leaps and spritely spins. Today, beautiful black and  white family photos hang in the <strong><em>Moody Street Circus Studio<\/em><\/strong> in  Waltham, MA, which she co-founded with her husband, <strong>Sacha<\/strong>. I have been  studying dance with Melina for seven years. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\">Visiting Rhea<\/p>\n<p> This past April, my boyfriend <strong>Aaron<\/strong> and I flew to Greece and spent six  weeks with Rhea. We were inspired by the photographs and by Melina\u2019s stories.  We wanted to taste the baklava for ourselves. As a dancer, I wanted the chance  to experience belly dancing in Greece, and to take classes with Rhea. Our ten  hour flight concluded with an introduction to the legendary performer at the  Acropolis metro stop. <\/p>\n<p class=\"highlight\">Rhea is like Socrates incarnate. Completely true to  herself and a wealth of insight, she loves engaging the people she meets in  conversations on history, society, and human nature. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art57\/graphics57\/celia\/taverna.jpg\" alt=\"Taverna\" width=\"400\" height=\"262\" align=\"left\" \/>On many occasions during  our stay (usually over souvlaki, mousaka, or some other culinary indulgence), Aaron  and I heard her views on Greek culture, her theories on the effects of  arbitrary authority, and her understanding of recent political events. <strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In its corner of the Plaka, directly beneath the Parthenon, Rhea\u2019s  apartment is an unforgettable place. She has lived there and supported herself  through belly dance for thirty-five years. Everything about its appearance  conveys her vast experience. Like Melina\u2019s studio, its walls are adorned with  photographs of herself and her two daughters. They strike proud, feminine poses  in bejeweled costumes\u2014appearing in magazine clippings, on promotional fliers,  and on CD covers. Every surface of Rhea\u2019s apartment is covered with a Middle  Eastern tapestry, a colorful cloth from Egypt, or a beaded veil. Her seating  area, where students gather after class, is plush with embroidered cushions.  Swords, golden canes, and other props hang on the walls and occupy corners. For  visitors, all this adornment has both a sensory overload effect and a way of  communicating the extent of Rhea\u2019s accomplishments. Her travels, her vibrant  performances, and her work as a mentor for others are represented by her d\u00e9cor.<\/p>\n<p>While we were in Greece, Rhea provided unending opportunities for me to  dance and learn. We went out almost every night, doing shows. Rhea\u2019s  connections run through the Plaka like arteries which channel the blood of her  influence. Everywhere we went free food and wine appeared on the table as  opportunities for me to perform presented themselves. Live orchestras played  upbeat, traditional songs and smooth taksims. Between my numbers, the Greek  patrons participated in line dances and sporadic solos. Our evenings in Athens  were full of storytelling, red wine, music, and performance. They gave me the  chance to share my current skills, to look back into the past through Rhea\u2019s  stories, and to inform the future of my craft.<\/p>\n<p>Traveling anywhere with Rhea would be interesting, but staying with her  amid the glorious ruins of Athens was especially inspiring. Each morning, I  woke up early to go running beneath the Parthenon. On these excursions, I felt  my body take in the Greek air. I contemplated the scale of the monument before  me and allowed my spirit to reel with vertigo. I felt connected to the  pan-historic human pursuit of art and physical aptitude. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art57\/graphics57\/celia\/mahmouds.jpg\" alt=\"Mahmoud's\" width=\"400\" height=\"271\" align=\"right\" \/>Egypt<\/p>\n<p> During the third week of our trip, Rhea took us to Egypt.\u00a0 She visits Cairo several times a year. The  700 year old marketplace near the El Hussein Square is her destination for  swords, costumes, and healthful oils. Her hotel of choice is located across  from the El Hussein Mosque. At 20 Euros a night, it agreed with my performers\u2019  budget. It was also noisy. 5 times a day, beginning at 5 AM, the call to prayer  sounded from the minarets. All night, the street below boomed with music from a  nearby hookah lounge. After Aaron repaired the light in our bathroom by wiring  it to the hot water switch, we were ready to make ourselves at home. At night,  we ventured out to absorb the sights. I saw beaded skirts and jewelry for sale  everywhere! It was the Raks Sharki world capital!\u00a0 <strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the Khan El-Khalili, I found an enormous variety of costumes. They  drape from manikins in shop windows. They hang outdoors in sparkling, colorful  rows. Veils, cymbals, and other props are sold in glittering heaps.\u00a0 After perusing the outdoor vendors, I made an  appointment with the internationally famous dealer, Mr. <strong>Mahmoud Abd El  Ghaffar<\/strong>. His shop is like a belly dance department store. The quality he  offers is the best in the market, and he does not barter. The costume I decided  to get for myself (a present from Aaron) is a bright purple color that will  shine onstage. Dripping beads and crystals will emphasize all of my movements. <br \/>\nHappily, we paid about a third of what it would cost in the U.S. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art57\/graphics57\/celia\/tanoura.jpg\" alt=\"Tanoura show\" width=\"300\" height=\"193\" align=\"left\" \/>Tanoura<\/p>\n<p> At Rhea\u2019s suggestion, Aaron and I spent one of our nights in Egypt going to see  the Tanoura troupe of Sufi Whirling Dervishes. At their show, I witnessed a  sacred expression of art. The show started with music, beginning with an  instrumental ensemble. The star performer was an elderly man, clearly in his  seventies, who played a set of large finger cymbals. He performed with rhythmic  sensitivity and an exceptional ability to connect with his audience. We were  awe struck by his musical dexterity and poise onstage. The age in his face  served only to enhance his graceful gestures and balletic poses by means of  contrast. His joyful expressions and playful demeanor delighted everyone in the  crowd. <strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As the show developed and grew richer, movement came to accompany music.  The Dervishes began to whirl, first in pairs and small groups, then receding to  allow one performer the prominent center position. He whirled for over twenty  minutes, building on the musical crescendos and riding the rhythms with  uplifted arms. At times, the other Dervishes performed simple steps in a line  upstage. At other moments, they created vibrant, swirling patterns around him.  For the audience, this spectacle of motion was endlessly entertaining \u2013 but it  also served to create an enlightening experience for the featured Dervish.\u00a0 He had a combination of powerful stimuli: the  music, his whirling, the whirling of those around him, and the supportive  presence of the audience. He gestured to the heavens, at times closing his eyes  with an expression that conveyed both exhalation and spiritual serenity. The  enraptured exchange between the audience and the Dervish became a spiraling  cycle of energy and excitement, giving and receiving. I was in love with the  show \u2013 indescribably happy to witness to a tradition that served to invoke the  physical, joyous sensation of the Divine through movement. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\">Museum<\/p>\n<p> Unlike the art of dance, the mask of Tutankhamen is remarkable because it is  static \u2013 frozen in both time and form. At the Egyptian Museum, Aaron and I paid  homage to this treasure. The face of the Pharaoh has the soft, harmonious  quality of living flesh. One can sense the muscle structure beneath its  surface. This illusion of life is so complete that when I looked at the mask, I  was amazed that it could not, in fact, move. According to the ancient  Egyptians, the mask of a mummy must replicate the features of the deceased with  absolute accuracy to ensure the spirit\u2019s ability to recognize its resting  place. The brilliantly realistic quality of the piece, therefore, resulted from  the spiritual purpose of its creators.<strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art57\/graphics57\/celia\/Pyramids.jpg\" alt=\"Aaron and Ceila at the Pyramids\" width=\"300\" height=\"202\" align=\"right\" \/>Pyramids<\/p>\n<p>\nOn our last day in Cairo, Aaron and I traveled out to the Pyramids of the Giza  Necropolis by camel. The site includes the Great Pyramid of Giza, the Pyramid  of Khafre, and the Pyramid of Menkaure. Rhea did not want to join us. She has  already seen them, and found them to be \u201cdead things\u201d. In her view, the  Pharaohs built them out in the desert because they did not want thousands of  people gawking at them every day \u2013 much less going inside. According to her,  they were meant exclusively, and unaesthetically, to serve the pursuit of a  peaceful afterlife. I tried to reconcile my desire to see the last surviving  example of the Seven Wonders of the Ancient World with my belief in her  reasoning via a compromise: I went up to the Pyramids, but I did not enter the  shrines. <strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are works of art which unite humanity in their ability to touch  all peoples, regardless of nationality. The pyramids and the ancient artifacts  from the tomb of Tutankhamen obviously rank in this category. They have a  curio-like appeal by virtue of their age alone, being material structures that  have somehow escaped the decay of many passing millennia. Like dance and  circus, they have the ability to make those who see them proud to be human.  When audience members see a dancer perform an extraordinarily complex sequence  of steps in perfect time, or when they see a tight rope walker fearlessly cross  a perilous divide, the joy that they experience comes from their renewed faith  in human ability. They share the glory of the achievement because they can  identify with the performer as members of the same, capable species. The  wonders of Ancient Egypt stand testament to the universal human instinct to  create \u2013an instinct that we share, amazingly, with individuals who lived and  died over 4,000 years ago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sectiontitle\">Return to Athens<\/p>\n<p> When we returned to Athens, Rhea set about preparing for a tribute show that  was held in her honor. The show happened on the last night of our trip, and it  was a perfect conclusion. Professional dancers who Rhea has inspired performed  solos. In addition to belly dancing, there was a Brazilian samba, an Egyptian  knife dance, and an Ethiopian duet. I danced with my hula hoop\u2014a specialty that  I have developed at Moody Street Circus. <strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>During my Mediterranean tour with Rhea, I met wonderful performers, saw  once in a lifetime sights, and developed my performance skills. Above all, the  experiences I had while I was abroad strengthened my understanding of the  attitude she and Melina have always shared with students: you must engage with  the world and find the pursuits that make you happy. Great pleasure can come  from sharing your talents with others and using them to benefit the community.  You must not let psychological spooks or unfounded hang-ups prevent you from  living a life uncommon.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/graphics\/acommentbox.jpg\" alt=\"use the comment box\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"ready4more\">\n<p>Have a comment? Use or comment section at the bottom of this page or <a href=\"mailto:editor@gildedserpent.com\">Send us a letter!<\/a> <br \/>\nCheck the &quot;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/let2ed.htm\">Letters to the Editor<\/a>&quot; for other possible viewpoints!<\/p>\n<p>Ready for more?<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t<!--end ready4more --><\/p>\n<div class=\"articlelist\">\n<ul>\n<li> <span class=\"articledate\"> 7-18-03 <\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/articles22\/barbaravisitsrhea.htm\">My Greek Transformation, A Conservative Engineer meets the &#8220;Instigator of Revolutions&#8221;<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Barbara Grant<\/span><br \/>\nRhea displayed boundless energy, far beyond my own at the best of times. 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You think it&#8217;s the first time I&#8217;ve traveled alone in the Middle East?<\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">5-10-06<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/art30\/rheasyriapart4.htm\">Rhea&#8217;s Travel to Syria &#8230;PART 4 &#8211; Damascus<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Rhea of Athens<\/span><br \/>\nIf you try to show what basically decent people Americans are, you will be run over like a wild coyote. Leave your manners at home and take on theirs.<\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">7-9-12 <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2012\/07\/09\/melina-art-entrepreneur\/\" class=\"articlelink\">Successful Art Entrepreneur or Belly Dance Dummy?<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Melinda Melina Pavlata, Ph.D.<\/span><br \/>\nHere it was, the pivotal moment, the moment where what you say determines what happens, or what doesn\u2019t happen, the moment of which you are either proud in retrospect or in which you feel defeated and ashamed, covering it up with the sands of time and silence and try to forget about it.<\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">7-8-12 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2012\/07\/08\/carl-mendocino-camp-photos-thursday-fire-dances\/\">Mendocino Camp Photos Page 3: Thursday Fire Dances! Middle Eastern Music and Dance Camp 2011<\/a> by Carl Sermon, Text by Shoshanna<\/span><br \/>\nRebecca Firestone shines! 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I assumed so, because the Bellydance Superstars were in the building; my expectations were sky high!<\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">7-2-12<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2012\/07\/02\/amara-ibcc-2012-leaving-opinion-space\/\" class=\"articlelink\">Leaving Space for Others Opinions, Thoughts while Attending IBCC 2012<\/a><span class=\"articleauthor\"> by Amara (Dr Laura Osweiler)<\/span><br \/>\nIn these moments, I find it challenging to remember that my responses are a reflection of my own belief systems, which may overlap, counter, or side-step someone else\u2019s.<\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">6-28-12<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2012\/06\/29\/carl-mendocino-camp-photos-page-2-monday\/\" class=\"articlelink\">Mendocino Camp Photos Page 2:Monday, Joshkun and Company are Back Playing in the Woods! Middle Eastern Music and Dance Camp 2011<\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">Photos by Carl Sermon, Text by Shoshanna<\/span><br \/>\nThe air is rich with music everywhere you go, and even in the lines for lunch or dinner there will be spontaneous drumming jams and improv dance sessions. <\/li>\n<li><span class=\"articledate\">6-27-12<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gildedserpent.com\/cms\/2012\/06\/27\/rebaba-ch10-queen-denia\/\"><span class=\"articlelink\">Too Much Time, Tips &amp; Terror, Queen of Denial, Chapter 10<\/span><\/a> <span class=\"articleauthor\">by Rebaba\/Rita Schwartz<\/span><br \/>\nMy agent found me extremely upset, and I was adamant that I couldn\u2019t possibly stay in Baghdad for another six weeks. I desperately wanted out of Iraq, and cried and pleaded with my agent to make it so.<\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Mediterranean Tour with Rhea of Athens by Celia posted July 11, 2012 Melina descends to the floor in a full split, clenching a dagger between her teeth. On top of the dagger, she balances a sword. Her ornate costume glitters in the warm lighting of Karoun Restaurant, where she is performing. 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